The only thing that you need to focus on is bettering yourself. When we’re not growing as people, we try to hold on to what’s familiar even when it’s unhealthy for..
us. Understand that you can create mature connection that doesn’t require babysitting. You don’t have to be hurt wondering, overthinking, and living in confusion, when all it takes is turning the attention back to you.
The start of change:
When your soul is awakening to its truth, you’ll go through a shift. So many changes will occur in your life. If you don’t accept the changes and trust the process that it’s time to evolve from things that aren’t growing you, than you’ll experience problems. This is where the chasing and forcing occurs, because people are scared to grow into themselves. They get scared of the unknown, scared to let go, because the familiar is too comforting even though it hurts them. The good news is that we need change. It pushes us out of our comfort zone and helps us grow. Even-though there might pain and discomfort during the process; it’s definitely worth it at the end.
The process of change:
Once you get to the point where you’re done chasing, forcing, and trying to keep your past together, a beautiful thing happens; something called surrendering. You let go and allow the change to happen in your life. You’re no longer focused on things outside of yourself to fulfill you. You go within to discover your inner strengths, beauty, light, and everything about you, that’ll elevate your life to new heights.
After you’ve been shifted internally and changed as a person, the results in your life will be much different. Now that you love yourself and feel whole within you, how you attract others to yourself will be completely different. You’re no longer be sending insecure signals, but rather the energy of strength, awareness, love, and kindness. This kind of energy will attract people who are on the similar path of self-discovery as yourself, ones who respect and admire your inner beauty, and ones who know how to walk by your side without force. Magical things happen when you let change, growth, and faith do the work in your life.